Top 10 Life Coaching Lessons of 2019

Top 10 Life Coaching Lessons of 2019

As I have worked with my clients this year I have uncovered several common problems or situations among them.  I thought I would give you a Top 10 List of lessons that life has taught myself and each of them as we work together for their success.

10.  We are all unique individuals, and no one has the right to judge us or have expectations of us.  Be strong in your resolve to live YOUR BEST LIFE, not one dictated by others.

9.  I have met clients who have such incredible love and forgiveness towards others, yet they cannot love or forgive themselves because they do not feel worthy.  I challenge everyone to focus on these two things towards yourself.  Self-Love is the first step to a happy life. 

8.  Working towards success and achieving it is amazing.  But if you do not enjoy the journey and you do not take the time to celebrate your successes, then why are you doing it?

7.  Not all white-old Men are the villains that they are made out to be, take personal responsibility for your life and your choices.   I am a white-old man and I am a pretty great guy who helps others succeed.  There are so many like me.  Stop being a VICTIM.

6.  Lies that you tell yourself and saying I am sorry when you don't mean it is bullshit.  Grow up and own your mistakes.  There is a reason that you feel like everyone in your life is against you, it is not them.

5.  Innocence, vulnerability, and a pure heart are not weaknesses.  They are STRENGTH!  YOUR STRENGTH.

4.  When she or he says it is over, It is.  Do not force the puzzle piece to fit into your life puzzle.  There is someone out there that will treat you the way that you should be treated, stop loving the person that you think they are and see the person that they really are.

3.  Plan the work and work the plan.  I have had so many successes this year with clients who make a plan and stick to it.  

2.  Never do business based on emotion.  Never take someone's word that you will be taken care of and compensated.  If it is a business transaction, get it in writing. This will save you a lot of turmoil in the future.

1.  You are your Choices!  Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is the definition of insanity.  Build a support system that pushes you outside of your comfort zone so that you make choices that allow you to be successful.

Happy New Year!

 

 

 

 

 

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